I'm not sure why I've been putting off updating and letting you all know that my surgery date has been set. There is no real reason. The only thing is that I've been busy trying to clean house, get ready for a garage sale, get frozen dinner prepared for recovery, and rest because I've been exhausted. The garage sale won't be happening until after my surgery, but I need to be ready for it, and won't be able to do much.
My surgery date is July 20! Friday the 13 is my pre-op. Not sure if I should be worried or superstitious about that day, but for now I'll hope it means good things to come. My husband has take the 20-29 off of work. I'm really glad he will be around for everything, to help during recovery as well.
I'm trying to get a lot of things done before my surgery to make it easy for him. This is his only vacation this year, and he's spending it taking care of me. I want to make it as easy for him as possible so I've set goals. My goal is to deep clean the house completely, to have everything that we sale at his parent's garage sale set aside, and to have easy meals he can pull out of the freezer and set in the oven or cock pot and not have the think.
It's funny. I've had some friends tell me to make him do the cooking, but he only BBQ's, so I don't think I want learning while I'm on almost bed rest, and like I said, this is his vacation time. We've even played around with the idea of going to the beach for a night, or up to our old camp for a few days. We've been wanting to go, my husband has really wanted to go volunteer some time, but we know we were going to have a surgery to work around, and my brother from Seattle is planning to come with his 3 kids, so his vacation time has had to be worked around them. We are not sure, because we don't know how I'll feel. My husband thinks I won't be up to, but I think I'll be fine. If we go up there, I won't have to cook. My in-laws will take care of my dog. All I need to be able to do is walk, which should be able to do, even if it's slowly. I may just have to take an hour to walk to a meal, instead of 10 minutes, but I'll take that. It would be nice little getaway for us, and this may be our only chance. My brother is coming in august, and hub's will not have a lot of vacation time left, so the days he takes off will be like a Friday and/or Monday with a weekend in between to utilize the time well. I'm looking forward to my brother coming. I only see him about once a year (which is more than my other two, which is never) and the last time I saw his kids he only had the oldest twins, who were about 14 months, and didn't have his youngest girl. He will also be bringing his girlfriend, who I only had a short meal with once, so I'm looking forward to getting to know the girl who has helped him to love again after the lies and hurt his ex-wife put him through.
I've been busy in this yuck heat trying to get everything ready. My meals has been pretty easy. When I cook dinner, I know just double everything, and easy have leftovers to freeze. As I dish them up to be frozen, I write out the directions for cooking and put them on the dish for easy reference. It should be fool proof (knock on wood!) Now that my pre-op is not too far away I've started to get a little jittery feeling. I just need to keep distracting myself. The date is set!